Tolka Mama
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Hebrew: טולקה מאמא (Russian: только мама (Only Mama)). Circle dance by Erez Tubul and Ira Weisburd, 2026.
The song (music and lyrics by Anatoly Mogilevsky, 1983) is a ballad that centers on a son's deep remorse and longing for his mother after leaving home to pursue his dreams. It tells the story of a prodigal son who abandoned his family, driven by ambition and the desire to "catch the Firebird" (a metaphor for lofty dreams and unattainable goals). His journey ends in failure and despair, as he "fell on the rocks, powerless." The core of the song is his return home, filled with shame and a plea for forgiveness. The song's meaning is a powerful exploration of the enduring, forgiving love of a mother, the pain of regret, and the universal human need to return to a place of safety and acceptance after failure
Concerning the creation of the dance, Ira Weisburd writes:
Tolka Mama began with a deeply personal request. A fellow Israeli dancer in New York named Chani shared the song with one of our dancers, Miranda, shortly after losing her mother. She told me how much it meant to her and asked if I would consider choreographing a dance to it. The message of the song is simple yet universal: “Only Mama” — the one person who is there in your darkest moments, who gives unconditional love, strength, and comfort. It’s something everyone can relate to, because everyone has — or has had — a mother. The moment I heard the music, I fell in love with it. Its warmth and emotional depth immediately inspired me to start creating steps.
As I began shaping the choreography, I realized this song deserved something truly special. I reached out to my friend and longtime collaborator in Israel, Erez Tubal, knowing he would connect to it as strongly as I did. He loved it instantly. Within just a couple of days, we worked together to create and finalize the dance, pouring into it both heart and energy. What started as a tribute rooted in love quickly became something much bigger.